PinnedMember-onlyMen Who Make Great Partners Are Committed To Doing This One Thing“What makes you so good at relationships?” I asked my boyfriend point-blank over dinner. My question was met with confusion. I went on, “the way you behave makes me feel like you’ve studied the female psyche or something. Or like you’ve read up on how to communicate effectively with women.” …Dating3 min read
PinnedMember-only8 Powerful Signs You’re Settling for the Wrong PersonYou could do worse, but you could do a lot better — Let me guess, you’re feeling unfulfilled in your current relationship? “But every relationship has its slumps,” you tell yourself. And yet, you’ve got this nagging sense that they’re supposed to feel better than this. “But relationships are hard. They take work,” you tell yourself. And yet, you feel exhausted, like…Dating5 min read
PinnedMember-onlyDear ‘Nice Guys’, These 3 Behaviours Make Us Incredibly UncomfortableThis is a PSA for all the ‘nice guys’ out there — please kindly fuck off. Before you get your back up, let me explain. No, I’m not a man-hating bitch. Seriously, I love my boyfriend and he’s a nice guy, but that’s beside the point. I’m just tired. Tired…Dating5 min read
May 28Member-onlyIs TikTok’s Obsession With Gut Health Just Another Rebranding Of Diet Culture?Every few years, diet culture gets a re-brand in the form of a shiny, new wellness trend. In 2020, we saw the rise of ‘intuitive eating’ and ‘anti-diet’ movements in response to the restrictive diet trends of earlier decades. However, it didn’t take long for the wellness industry to catch…Gut Health5 min read
Apr 22Member-onlyHere’s Exactly How Popular Dating Apps Rate Your AttractivenessIn the midst of swiping, have you ever stopped to wonder how dating apps decide who sees your profile (and vice versa)? The whole process seems completely random, like drawing from a deck of well-shuffled cards. However, it turns out that there’s actually a method to it. Naturally, dating apps…Dating5 min read
Apr 17Member-onlyWhat 90% of People Get Wrong About Enforcing BoundariesOnce I understood this, I found the relationship of my dreams — Do you ever think about how many of the problems in your life are related to boundary setting? Not a day goes by when I don’t hear someone in my life gripe about something that revolves around their personal boundaries (and lack thereof.) “He always wants to stay up late…Relationships4 min read
Apr 14Member-onlyThe ‘Talking Stage’ is a Scam — Here’s How to Avoid ItGen Z has finally coined a new term for that awkward, albeit exciting, period between meeting someone and officially defining the relationship (DTR) — the talking stage. You may be wondering how this is different from conventional dating. Well, more often than not, the talking stage is characterized by a…Dating6 min read
Apr 11Member-onlyThis Powerful Cheat Code Will Help You Get Over Your Last Relationship 10x FasterOne of the hardest parts of a breakup is how much mental space your ex takes up. Even if it was for the best, there’s a tendency to spend a lot of time in the post-breakup period replaying things in your head. No matter how amicable the break was, it…Relationships4 min read
Apr 9Member-onlyI’m Challenging Myself to Show Up for 90 DaysForgive the journal entry. Lately, I’ve been feeling like my daily effort is not in line with my long-term goals. Not even close. Despite having more free time to pursue my own interests, I’ve failed to put in place a routine that allows me to show up consistently for my…Consistency2 min read
Apr 8Member-only‘Chill Girls’ Finish LastShe’s holding you back from having the relationship of your dreams — Most of us have tried to be the ‘chill girl’ at some point. She is cool, calm, and non-committal when it comes to dating. Unlike most girls, she’s low maintenance. She doesn’t expect guys to take her on dates (or even text her before 11pm.) She’s always down to hook…Dating4 min read
