You could do worse, but you could do a lot better — Let me guess, you’re feeling unfulfilled in your current relationship? “But every relationship has its slumps,” you tell yourself. And yet, you’ve got this nagging sense that they’re supposed to feel better than this. “But relationships are hard. They take work,” you tell yourself. …

This is a PSA for all the ‘nice guys’ out there — This is a PSA for all the ‘nice guys’ out there — please kindly fuck off. Before you get your back up, let me explain. No, I’m not a man-hating bitch. Seriously, I love my boyfriend and he’s a nice guy, but that’s beside the point. I’m just tired. Tired…

All is fair in love and Tinder — In the midst of swiping, have you ever stopped to wonder how dating apps decide who sees your profile (and vice versa)? The whole process seems completely random, like drawing from a deck of well-shuffled cards. However, it turns out that there’s actually a method to it. Naturally, dating apps…

Once I understood this, I found the relationship of my dreams — Do you ever think about how many of the problems in your life are related to boundary setting? Not a day goes by when I don’t hear someone in my life gripe about something that revolves around their personal boundaries (and lack thereof.) “He always wants to stay up late…

Gen Z has finally coined a new term for that awkward, albeit exciting, period between meeting someone and officially defining the… — Gen Z has finally coined a new term for that awkward, albeit exciting, period between meeting someone and officially defining the relationship (DTR) — the talking stage. You may be wondering how this is different from conventional dating. Well, more often than not, the talking stage is characterized by a…

One of the hardest parts of a breakup is how much mental space your ex takes up. Even if it was for the best, there’s a tendency to spend a… — One of the hardest parts of a breakup is how much mental space your ex takes up. Even if it was for the best, there’s a tendency to spend a lot of time in the post-breakup period replaying things in your head. …

Forgive the journal entry. Lately, I’ve been feeling like my daily effort is not in line with my long-term goals. Not even close. Despite… — Forgive the journal entry. Lately, I’ve been feeling like my daily effort is not in line with my long-term goals. Not even close. Despite having more free time to pursue my own interests, I’ve failed to put in place a routine that allows me to show up consistently for my…

She’s holding you back from having the relationship of your dreams — Most of us have tried to be the ‘chill girl’ at some point. She is cool, calm, and non-committal when it comes to dating. Unlike most girls, she’s low maintenance. She doesn’t expect guys to take her on dates (or even text her before 11pm.) She’s always down to hook…

Hint: it’s the opposite of how men date — When it comes to dating, women’s fatal flaw is our imagination. We get overly investing in our prospective date based on five Hinge photos and two hours' worth of witty banter. We futuretrip. We love to imagine all the things we could be. …